The Day That Changed Us – My 9/11 Tribute

It was early and I was just getting settled into my desk, when my telephone rang. It was the associate warden’s secretary stating, “Mrs. Carter, a plane just hit the World Trade Center. All staff are to report to an emergency recall in the west building.” I snapped back in response, “that is not cute. Why would you say something like that?” Thank God, she was patient and responded that it was not a joke, and calmly instructed me to please inform the rest of the department of the recall.

This could not be happening, it felt like déjà vu.

As we walked outside our Park Slope building, there was debris falling from the sky. I subconsciously placed myself between the two men I worked with as we started our walk from the east building. I looked toward the WTC, saw smoke across the Hudson River, and grabbed one of the sheets of debris. It was a fax cover letter dated that morning from the AON Corporation which was located within the WTC. As I began to cry, I prayed for the safety of the man whose name was on the cover sheet and all those who walked in the WTC as part of their normal routine that morning.

It was the beginning of a very long day…. (to be continued)

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Affairs of the Heart

Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. Proverbs 4:23 NLT

We have all experienced some form of heartbreak. As Believers, we should be about tending to each others wounds. We should be lifting each other up and providing Godly advice. However, in order to be restored, you must first reach out and expose the wound. Each of us has survived our own storm and from time to time, the winds of chaos are bound to kick up again.

Our best defense when the winds of life begin to rage is to pray and ask the Father with whom to consult. You see it is important to let the Father lead you, because He has someone just right for that situation. We survive the detours of this life journey so that we may be available to help someone else on their journey. We are to guard our hearts because all that we do comes from our heart. What we believe in our hearts is what we act out in life. If you hold on to pain, anger or fear, it affect the way you walk through life. Some of us are holding onto so much junk that if we saw ourselves with a spiritual eye, we would be amazed we’ve ever progressed. Holding on to the past perils of life will make you feel sluggish in dealing with current life experiences.

It’s time to do a bit of cleaning… heart cleaning. Time to evaluate your condition. See what needs to be rearranged or thrown away. If it isn’t helping you grow, let it go!

Father, we come to you forever thankful for your grace and mercy. We ask that you help us do an honest inventory of our hearts. Cleanse us of the residue that feeds off the pain we’ve experienced in this life. Show us our beauty in you and remove anything that keeps us from getting closer to you. Amen.

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Be Rich In Love

The world is a buzz with chatter regarding the death of Grammy-winning singer Whitney Houston. There are videos and love notes being posted on every social media. There are wonderful stories of how caring she was to fellow artist. She was the best – there will never be another voice – loved her from the first single!

All that is good and lovely. Yet a part me wishes she would have gotten that support in life. I was not a personal friend, yet I sat with the world and watched her say she was her own demon, her own worse enemy at times. Those are the times she needed to know she was loved. I believe through all her pain, she never forgot her roots which were planted in her faith in God. [NY Daily News article]

Let us remember Ms. Houston by reaching out in love. Let us not give up on each other. There is someone out there who needs to know someone still cares. This life thing is not meant to be done alone, that was established in Genesis when God created man and woman. We are each others keeper and we need to get on our jobs. Pray and ask God to lead you to someone in need. I believe God allows us to survive this crazy world so that we can help others get through their pain.

Father, we thank you for your love. We long to be more than fair-weathered friends. We want to be loved and love like you, unconditionally. We ask that you chip away  fears from previous experiences which often unable us from accepting and giving love. We honor and thank you. Amen.

“We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” ~ Mother Teresa

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